How we Live Our Lives is Influenced by Our Perceptions

Do you begin to feel old at a certain age because you actually feel different, or is it because you have seen articles and magazine stories or been influenced by friends who act old. When you were in your 40’s or 50’s and momentarily forgot a word, I bet you gave it little thought. But when you are older it immediately signals a symptom of old age because your mind has been conditioned that this is what you expect at an older age. Did you know that in fact only 5.3% of people age 65 to 74 have Alzheimer related dementia.

As we age, we worry about what is acceptable for us as far as behavior regarding work, fashion, sports, exercise, and travel. In truth there is nothing that you cannot continue to do with some adaptions. There are all kinds of jobs available for older adults. As you grow older there are many surprising benefits to working at something you enjoy. Such as meeting new people, interacting with others, exploring a new career, earning extra money and having a feeling of self- worth.

You can continue to enjoy Fashion at any age. You may have to adapt by switching out that Mini for a Midi if it makes you more comfortable. There are many Brands who now have as many older women as younger women for customers. Creating your Style and feeling good about yourself can go a long way in putting that spring back in your step.

If you have the perception that “Working Out’ is only for younger people you should know that in a 2019 study, researchers found that increasing physical activity led to 11 percent drop in heart disease risk among people age 60 and older. Alternately, stopping physical activity increased heart disease risk by 27 percent. According to Alicia I. Arbaje, MD, MPH, assistant professor of Geriatrics and Gerontology at Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine in Baltimore “ A lot of the symptoms that we associate with old age — such as weakness and loss of balance — are actually symptoms of inactivity, not age,” Studies have found that even in people in their nineties living in nursing homes, starting an exercise routine can boost muscle strength.

The picture that society has painted for aging adults in the past has been living their later years in assisted living and nursing homes. When in fact only only 4.5 percent (about 1.5 million) of older adults live in nursing homes and 2 percent (1 million) in assisted living facilities. 

Live your life according to new outlooks not old stereotypes. Change your perception of aging and live your life according to what you want it to be. Happiness actually may increase with age. Overall, about 33% of Americans reported being very happy at age 88, versus about 24% of those age 18 to their early 20s. How would we look at aging if society was constantly telling us that our older years can be the best years of our lives? Something to think about!

Leslie B

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17 responses to “How we Live Our Lives is Influenced by Our Perceptions”

  1. Donna Avatar
    Donna

    Great article.

  2. Sandi Avatar
    Sandi

    You constantly inspire this recently turned 80 year old…I try to defy aging.

  3. Rosemary Avatar

    Very good article! Great perspective! Love it!

  4. Pamela Watson Avatar
    Pamela Watson

    What is the dress you are wearing above? Very sharp!

    1. Sherry G Avatar
      Sherry G

      I have been searching for that dress since she featured it 2 or 3 years ago!

  5. Lynette Tribbett Avatar
    Lynette Tribbett

    Love love love this. I’ll turn 74 in a week, and 8 months ago I decided to wear makeup again, dress the way that makes me feel like me (a little fun and more fashionable)and lose the weight thats made me feel frumpy and old! I’m so much happier feeling like the “real” me…I highly recommend stepping out of you comfortable zone!

    1. Bonnie Avatar
      Bonnie

      Wow, your comment inspired me! Thank you for sharing your experience!

  6. Kathy Avatar
    Kathy

    Finally! There truly is joy in growing older, it’s not all gloom and doom 👏

  7. Ann Avatar
    Ann

    “ Live your life according to new outlooks not old stereotypes “…..what an uplifting statement.

  8. Paula Avatar
    Paula

    Something definitely to think about What caught my attention was the activity. I really need to be more active because I do have some weakness and balance issues. I’m 75 and need to do something soon. I hope this is the motivation I need.

  9. Janet Avatar
    Janet

    I just turned 82. I firmly believe age is just a number. You need to exercise your brain, exercise your body, learn something new and socialize. Granted my health is excellent. I feel like I’m 42.

  10. Georgia Taylor Avatar
    Georgia Taylor

    Thank you for inspiring us to do more !

  11. Kathy Avatar
    Kathy

    This came at just the right time. I just turned 79 and with a few new aches and pains was starting to think of myself as old. Age is just a number and we don’t have to buy in to the stereotype. We have two cruises booked for the fall and I am going to enjoy every day!

  12. Camille Greenspan Avatar
    Camille Greenspan

    Very good words! I’m 77, and people think I’m much younger. I REFUSE to say I’m old!!! My brain is 40!!!

  13. Sue Davis Avatar
    Sue Davis

    I totally agree with advice you are giving. I have lived it. I am 92. Still go to gym five days a week. Live alone with absolutely no help for anything. My family all live out of state. Just this spring drove to Fort Benning to see my grandson graduate from Ranger training. Then in July drove to Nashville Tennessee for a week. Traveled by myself. I will say I have worked hard to have this quality life. Not always easy. I have a wonderful family. I am as happy as possible. Also , I attend church every Sunday . Unless I am ill. Will say that is extremely rare. I am grateful everyday. Do I have perfect health, no. I do take medicine. I wish I could share my good health. But, I contribute it to all the years of exercising . Hope this encourages others. .

  14. Bonnie Avatar
    Bonnie

    I’m so glad I came across this blog about life in my 70s recently. Candy, your articles and short videos are inspiring! I will turn 70 in December and have “just enjoyed retirement lazing” a little too much!! I am in good health and have no excuse to not be my best self at 69 and into my new decade. You sent me, and many others I’m sure, the message to get up and make that happen! Best wishes for you!

  15. Andie Avatar
    Andie

    I will never delete this blog post. It is so meaningful.
    Thank you.

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