Imagine a bouncing ball… the harder you press down on that ball the higher it bounces. It has to hit the ground again to bounce higher each time and so it is when we hit roadblocks in life.

When we are young, we have this wonderful “why” within us!! It is the most natural thing in the world for us to ask why about everything we learn. But then where does it go? Do we reach a certain age where why doesn’t even matter anymore? Where we are so certain of our answers that we no longer question them?

If every image that we see is created and styled to perfection we risk losing the ability to decipher what is pretend and what is real, creating unreasonable expectations for ourselves no matter what our age.

Just like attitudes toward aging, encouraging new attitudes toward style and beauty have to come from us. What we accept and support as our reality is what will prevail.

What is the first thing that comes to mind when you think about aging? Is it negative or positive? Does it make you feel sad or happy? Too many people associate aging with negativity. When in reality it can be the best time of your life.

So often as age we wonder what it all means. We hope that after all these years we will discover some answers to the meaning of our lives. We ask ourselves “Is This All There Is”? Constantly focusing on meaning we miss what is unfolding to us every day.